Saturday, 4 July 2009

One of the Guys

I laugh alot.

If I find a situation extremely funny, I'll burst out laughing till my eyes water. Laughter is part of my everyday life.

I've also been told that I have a great sense of humour, which I think is cool and interesting. We all must see the humour in things and be able to laugh at ourselves.

Now, the downpart about all this is that when I laugh and exhibit my sense of humour, guys tend to treat me as one of the guys.

It's not a problem if they are guys whom I treat as friends. But if it's a guy whom I like, then it'd be a problem.

They say you should be yourself when dating, exploring relationships, etc.

But what if my authentic personality of laughter and humour limits my chances of being one of the gals whom guys go after?

I noticed that many of these hot chicks whom guys adore tend to have personalities that resemble a walking corpse.

Let's take a look at Jennifer Anniston and Angelina Jolie.

Aniston has a great smile. She looks like someone with a great sense of humour, someone who would make a good buddy.

Jolie on the other hand does not have a killer smile like Aniston. She seldom smile in her pics. Even if she does, it's just a sultry smile with a slight turn at the corner of her lips. To me, she comes across as someone who is cold and unapproachable.

But look where the 2 ladies are today.

Aniston is divorced and single, hopping from one relationship to the next.

Jolie has bagged herself Brad Pitt, one of the most sexiest man alive. And together with a brood of kids, she is living the life.

In fact, Pitt left Aniston - the warm, buddy girl with the killer smile for Jolie -the cold, unapproachable one.

What does this tell you?

That men think with their dicks? Maybe ... but at the end of the day, it's the gal who does not laugh that gets everything.

What do you think?


Anonymous said...

I have the same problem at you. I laugh a lot, I have a relatively happy disposition, but due to that, guys think I'm too loud for them. Strange thing was when I was younger and with much lower confidence, as a result not laughing much, I tend to attract more guys. But I don't want to go back to that state because I was living quite a tiring life being depressed, yet now I cannot seem to attract any serious one!

BHART said...


xinxin said...

wow. what a nice post.
everyones love laughing including me.
At anywhere,everywhere, me and my gals r always the noisiest.
But i guess whether we laughing anot does not bother how the guys look at us! Besides they might like u! ;)


Julie Lim said...


Our bfs would have to accept us for who we are - laughter, humour and all!

Julie Lim said...


You really think I have a better life than Aniston and Jolie ??? Lol !

Julie Lim said...


Thanks for dropping by!

Yes, being noisy usually attracts lots of attention. And hopefully the right attention is attracted ;-)

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